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What Makes a Marriage Great: Function + Attachment and How to Know the Difference and Go Deeper in Your Relationship
Kayla Montgomery Kayla Montgomery

What Makes a Marriage Great: Function + Attachment and How to Know the Difference and Go Deeper in Your Relationship

A great marriage is about far more than running a household or functioning well as a team. While parenting, paying bills, and managing daily logistics matter, couples often find themselves feeling lonely when their relationship runs only on “function.” What truly strengthens a marriage is secure attachment—feeling safe, seen, soothed, and secure with your partner—and emotional attunement, the ability to turn toward each other with empathy and responsiveness. When partners build these deeper layers of connection, they experience greater intimacy, easier communication, and a sense of being truly “at home” with one another. These qualities, not just task-sharing, are what transform a marriage from simply surviving to deeply thriving.

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