Therapeutic full disclosure is a structured process designed to help couples rebuild trust after infidelity through an honest, guided approach with a team of professionals.
The process
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Full Disclosure
Roughly 2-3 Months after both individuals have been in their own therapy, the Betrayer engages in the disclosure process, explaining the details of what they did to betray and the modes through which they were able to be deceptive.
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Why Letter
Six to twelve months after the Full Disclosure, the Betrayer answers the Betrayed Partner’s questions regarding why they deceived their partner.
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Impact Letter
Shortly after the Why Letter, the Betrayed Partner shares how the betrayal in the relationship has impacted them and the many layers of trauma experienced throughout the betrayal and recovery process.
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Restitution Letter
Three to six months later, the Betrayer presents a letter explaining their understanding of the betrayal behaviors, why they did it, and the impacts these behaviors had on their partner and the relationship.
Therapeutic Full Disclosure is a carefully guided process in which the partner who has engaged in infidelity shares the full truth of their actions with their betrayed partner in a safe, structured setting with both client’s individual therapists present for support. Unlike spontaneous or incomplete disclosures, this approach is thoughtfully planned with the support of trained therapists to minimize further harm and foster genuine healing. The goal is not to punish, but to rebuild trust through honesty, accountability, and emotional safety. Both partners are prepared in advance, and the disclosure is followed by space for processing, support, and ongoing therapeutic work. When done intentionally, full disclosure can be a powerful first step toward restoring connection and moving forward together.